October 2003

Our trip last month went wonderfully. There were a few bumps along the way — such as me ending up in the Twin Falls, Idaho emergency room the first night with an ear infection — but overall we had a great time.

One of the highlights of the trip was Yellowstone National Park. I’ve wanted to go there since I was a kid, so it was very exciting. It was far more spectacular than I ever imagined. We were a little slow getting started but we managed to make it — just in time — to see Old Faithful going off. I mean what trip to Yellowstone is complete without seeing that?!

We saw LOTS and LOTS of WONDERFUL things. I never expected it to be so beautiful. There was wildlife, geysers, mineral formations, waterfalls, lakes, rivers and more! We even crossed the Continental Divide!

We left Yellowstone and headed south through the Grand Tetons. The weather had turned snowy and cold overnight and we couldn’t see a thing. In Jackson Hole we met up with Reed’s Aunt Betty and her husband Raymond for lunch. That was a lot of fun — I had never met them before.

We traveled across a great deal of Wyoming. Let’s just say there isn’t much to Wyoming but high desert and lots of cows (see “The Cow Song”, bottom of page). We did see several windmill farms. I must say I was rather pleased to see renewable energy being used. I even heard on the radio that there were plans to build another —the biggest yet — windmill farm in western Wyoming.

We then spent 5 days in Denver, Colorado. Reed’s sister Rachel was getting married. They had planned a Lord of the Rings themed wedding as they are both big fans of the stories. As with any good wedding there were a few emergencies and one of them led to Reed playing the part of Gandalf in the wedding party. He had on a robe and carried a large staff. The happy couple are Unitarians — I had never attended a Unitarian ceremony before so it was all new to me. They took aspects from many different religions and incorporated them into the service, including a hand fasting, ring exchange, breaking of a glass, jumping the broom and a few others. It was a lot of fun and many of the guests dressed in the Lord of the Rings costumes.

After Denver we drove to eastern Colorado to spend the day with my Great-Grandma. She just recently turned 95! The day was very special to me and I loved every moment of it. As a rule you never leave Grandma’s house empty handed and this was no exception — she had crocheted each of us an afghan!

We then headed north towards Mount Rushmore. We first stopped at the Crazy Horse Monument. In case you don’t know about this — Native American tribes have worked together to carve a huge monument of Crazy Horse. It’s very impressive. (See http://www.crazyhorse.org/ for more info).

Then it was off the Mount Rushmore. That was impressive and neat, but to be honest it wasn’t nearly as big as I imagined it would be. When you see it in pictures it seems to be enormous, but in person it just doesn’t seem that big. Don’t get me wrong, it’s still very impressive and the work to complete it was outstanding, it’s just that I imagined it being much bigger.

After that we headed east to the Devils Tower National Monument. (This is where the space ship landed in the movie Close Encounters.) Now this was VERY impressive. We could see it 20 miles in the distance as we drove towards it. The closer we got the more impressive it became. It is HUGE and beautiful. Sitting at the base of it really leaves you in awe of Mother Nature.

After that we visited Little Big Horn. This was the last great battle of the “Indian Wars” and “Custer’s Last Stand”. We toured the battle fields and got an idea of the chain of events that took place. I can’t say it was a very upbeat stop, but it is a necessary one if you are in the area. It reminds us all of how easy it is to misunderstand the culture and traditions of others. It tells us we need to respect other people’s way of life. This is something I saw less and less of the more east we traveled. The amount of Christian billboards, bumper stickers, newspaper items, etc, all increased dramatically.

During the last Presidential election, I saw this map that showed the population density of the country, and along with that, the political affiliation. This made something very clear that I had previously only suspected — that the more people that live in any given area, the more likely they are to lean towards the liberal side of the political spectrum. What it really says is that the more people you live around, the harder you have to work at accepting other ways of life — in the end it just becomes natural. When people live out in the underpopulated areas, they are not exposed to different ideas, and when faced with something new they often respond badly — for example look at the Matthew Shepherd case in Laramie, Wyoming.

People need to be exposed to ideas such as Atheism and Secular Humanism. The more they know the more they will understand. They need to know what we are REALLY about. So as always I encourage everyone to not be afraid to speak out and let people know about who we are and what we stand for, and remember to be patient — it might take a little longer for some folks to get it.

“The Cow Song”, sung to the tune of “Jingle Bells”
(Inspired by the state of Wyoming after too much driving.)

Cow cow cow!
Cow cow cow!
Cow COW cow cow cow!
Cow cow cow, cow-cow cow cow cow
Cow cow cow cow cow.
COW!
Cow cow cow!
Cow cow cow!
Cow COW cow cow cow!
COW COW COW COW COW cow cow cow
COW COW cow cow cow.

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